New Assignments

We're glad to have you as a Verified Domme here on Findom App! We're going to do anything and everything possible to make this work for you.

We've created a series of Assignments that are going to focus on earning as much as possible as a Domme here.

Once each Assignment has been finished, we will then move you on to the next Assignments with additional steps for you to complete.

If you ever have any questions or need help with anything you can always contact us using the Contact Us link at the bottom of this page.

So for now, click below to get started on Assignment #1, and you will be moved on to later Assignments after each previous Assignment has been completed.

Verified Assignment #1

Start Messaging

Let's jump right into it and start messaging some subs. For this first Assignment, you're going to send a first message to 5 different Verified Subs.

We've gone over some first message techniques in previous Assignments. Alternatively, you're welcome to take your own approach to this.

The intent of this message is to show dominance over the sub, and also give yourself the best set up for getting a reply back.

However, for this Assignment, all you have to do is send out 5 first messages. On later Assignments we're going to dive in deeper and explore the responses you got, what to do with the responses you get, where to lead things next, etc.

If you need any help with what to say:

"Hey there little sub, I'm Goddess/Mistress ____________. Now that I'm a Verified Domme here, I am the one in control now. You understand me, sub? If you're lucky, and you're a really good sub, I will own you and make you my slave. I'm going to have complete control over your every move. But again, only if you're worthy."

This sets up a challenge and leaves the interaction open ended with more to explore, increasing the likelihood of a response. Too many Dommes just demand an initial tribute immediately. If you get it, that's great, but if you don't, the interaction is pretty much finished right there and then. That could be a huge mistake. We like to give subs a hoop to jump through and it gives the interaction the opportunity to move forward in a way that gives you the control and leaves the sub intrigued and wondering what's going to happen next.

So send that first message, and then send an intriguing/sexy picture of yourself (optional but recommended). Not TOO sexy or intriguing, just enough to get attention but not like you're giving away anything for free nor like you're giving him more than he deserves, which is very little, especially at this early stage in the interaction. This could even be a good opportunity for a blurry pixelated photo with a comment to go along with it saying how he could never get with you, nor is he worthy enough to see a sexy photo of you, but rather this pixelated blurry photo is all he's allowed to see, but you do give him permission to respond.

And then the last and final message in this particular sequence will be your call to action:

"You like what you see, sub? (assuming you sent a regular non-pixelated photo) Haha, of course you do. I'm perfect, and you're just.. _______ (insert insult here or even just leave it blank after the .., sort of insinuating the sub is so low he's not even worthy enough for you to give him an insult).

Anyway, message me back sub, I have plenty more in store for you. And don't you even think about keeping me waiting, " (you can add a vague or specific punishment here, or you can command him to talk to only you and not to any other Domme, or simply end after "waiting").

The above is a very rough template, and you're welcome to use it if you're struggling for a first introduction. There are many schools of thought on Findom techniques, how to approach subs (if at all.. many Dommes insist on not approaching subs at all).

Other Dommes might say 3 separate messages to start is a little too try hard or desperate. Our observations are that some level of persistence is necessary in order to cut through other Dommes who the subs might be interacting with. Appearing desperate, amateur or "try-hard" is going to be more so in the content of what you write and less in the consistency. In theory, you could write a whole paragraph (not recommended) and give off a vibe that you're completely aloof while on the other end of the spectrum you could write one word and look amateur and desperate. It's an exaggerated example but you get the point.

The above demonstrates our take on Findom and some of our Findom technique and the way we look at Findom interactions that get the best and most consistent results. On Findom App we take a very dominant, aggressive and action oriented approach. Again, you're welcome to use any Findom style or technique you'd like, but to complete this Assignment, all you have to do is send 5 first messages to 5 different Verified Subs.

A few other points on messaging..

Don't assume anything you don't know for sure about the sub. If the sub has content in their profile (a certain photo, username, bio, etc.) that reveals something about what they're into, then sure you can play off of that. So if a sub says in their bio that they love mean Dommes and want to get bullied, fine. But if you don't have the proper information, we recommend going in more neutral at first, until you can determine what the sub is into and you can play off of that. For example, if the sub wants a softer Domme and he's here to find Dommes to spoil, going in and being extremely mean to him and telling him he's a small dick loser might not be the best approach right off the bat.

Also, balance and adapt your approach. If you go in neutral, and then decide to get really mean, and he seems to respond less and less, or not be into it, adapt, and change things up. Another mistake Dommes make is they double down and get even meaner (or whatever it is the sub is not responding well to) and eventually the sub stops responding all together. If something isn't working, change it up. Persistence is good when something is working, and you just need that extra push. Persistence is NOT good when something isn't working. Definitely learn to calibrate the differences and adjust your approach and interactions accordingly.

Always remember that you are the one leading these interactions, not the sub. Once you've gotten control over the interaction and gotten the proper amount of compliance from the sub, you can then take the interaction in any direction to any place you want, which of course in this Findom context here means moving the interaction towards $$$.

But back to the Assignment. All you have to do is send 5 first messages to 5 different Verified Subs.

And that is it for this Assignment.

If you've completed any or all of this on your own previously, that is fine, you can skip any of this that you've already done and submit your completion below (see below).

But if not, then do this now.

Once you are done with this, you are going to enter your Findom App username below, check the box and submit.

At this point, you will be completely finished with Verified Assignment #1, and you will wait for further instructions on how to begin and complete Verified Assignment #2.

Verified Assignment #2